The God who Comes Near: A Christmas Message

December 24, 2025

A Christmas message from reflection on the words of John 1 and what God has been showing me this Advent.

One of my favourite sayings when I was younger was “not my circus, not my monkeys.” It saved me from many a stupid moment when I am prone to get over-invested, believing that somehow I can bring some clarity and help to a situation (when inevitably I’d bring more heat than light).


This Advent, I was struck by the God who is the opposite. The God who looks at his creation, his cosmos, and even his own people, in all of their waywardness, hatefulness and selfishness, and says, effectively “I will embrace this circus, they will become my monkeys.” He didn’t have to, but He has.


We are so used to the Christmas message, we often forget how striking this is. The holy God comes near to a bursting-with-sin creation. The pure and spotless God entering a filthy and wretched world. A loving God tenderly embracing a shame-filled and distorted humanity.


It’s not how we naturally deal with things. When someone is sick with flu or Covid, we don’t want to get what they’ve got so we stay away. When someone says something unpopular, they can get disinvited from events, starring in a movie or speaking at graduation. When something is broken, we too often throw it out rather than take the time to see what we can do.


Our human response to things that step outside of the boundary of what we consider ‘okay,’ at very least, is to keep our distance. Move on.


Yet this is not new. In all honesty, it’s the thin end of a much thicker edge.


About ten minutes from where I work is a road named Broad Street [pictured above]. If you look, you can find an unassuming square of cobbled brickwork in the middle of an otherwise tarmacked road. On this brickwork is a cross. On the wall of the college nearest to it is a plaque that explains what that cross remembers: the deaths of Ridley, Cranmer and Latimer. 16th century Reformers who were burned at the stake for believing something different—and daring to speak about it. For challenging the religious establishment. They were rejected and executed by people claiming the name of Christ, for believing something different.


Who would want to lean in, show up, and do something, when the result could even lead to death? The temptation is to look at the chaos—the circus and its monkeys—and simply walk away.


But that is not how God responds. That is not the message of Christmas.


God comes near. Not in power. But in humility.


He moves into the neighbourhood. Even as he is rejected. Even as he is rendered a child refugee. Even as he misunderstood by his parents. Even as he is plotted against by the religious leaders of his day. Even as his own disciples misunderstand him, again and again. Even as the crowds that welcome him into Jerusalem would eventually condemn him to a shameful death on a cross.


"He was in the world, and the world came into being through him; yet the world did not know him. He came to what was his own, and his own people did not accept him." (John 1:10-11)


Being rejected by the world at large is one thing. Being rejected by the religious establishment is another. But Jesus was rejected by his own. His own people. His friends, his community, his compatriots.


But he came near anyway.


Why would anyone do that? Why would the Son of God draw near?


John 1 says it is to offer an alternative. A way out of the circus of crazy that marks our existence. Where we hurt others and are hurt in return. Where we try to bring about change but lose our sanity in the process.


"But to all who received him, who believed in his name, he gave power to become children of God, who were born, not of blood or of the will of the flesh or of the will of man, but of God." (John 1:12-13)


For those with eyes to see: he offers membership of a heavenly family. A heavenly community. The beginnings of a new creation. Where what is broken is healed. What is transgressed is forgiven. What is divided is reconciled. Where there is no hatred, alienation, dehumanisation or contention.


Not something marked by human willpower and its scars. But new creation and life borne of God.


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The manger this Christmas, invites us to draw near in return. To see the God who has moved into the neighbourhood. Who takes on human flesh. Who shows us a different path to life. 


Merry Christmas!


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A friend asked me for my thoughts on forgiveness. Here's some of what I have come to learn.
By Suse McBay July 28, 2026
Let me start by asking a question: if someone came up to you and asked what's the benefit or blessing of being a Christian, what would you include in your answer? There's the things we might know to say from Sunday School: Jesus loves me, died for me, so I can be forgiven and free. Or something like that. Would it naturally come to your lips to say this: The gift of my faith is that no matter how hard life gets, no matter the sorrow or suffering that comes my way, I am reassured and strengthened by the confidence that God does not ignore the unjust lives or deaths of those who stick close to Him? *** This summer I’m taking some time to look at Daniel 11-12 and Book 4 of the Jewish poetic writings I research, the Sibylline Oracles . This post is an observation and an out-loud thought from some of my reading. Again and again, both in Daniel, the Sibyllines, an array of other Jewish literature, and the gospels (as well as elsewhere in the NT—e.g. Mark 8:38-9:1, 10:29-31, John 11:25, 1 Cor 15:16-19, 2 Corinthians 4), resurrection and the post-mortem life appears as an encouragement and response to the problem of human suffering. Not a rationale or justification. It’s not an answer to the question of ‘why does God allow suffering’ in any overt sense. But an end to the story of God’s peoples that shapes how the present might be lived. When I was very young, I thought resurrection was more-or-less a get of jail free card for the crucifixion. Jesus died on a cross to deal with sin and death. But if he isn't raised it's all pointless: so God has to raise him. Resurrection as an after thought, if you will. But resurrection isn't an epilogue. It's the victory. Without it the whole story is pointless. It's a real, substantial, material hope. *** Life is hard work. Life does not always go our way. Even when it does, that way isn't usually what we really wanted anyway! There's the normal hard stuff of life: work, family, friendships, health and so on. Then there's the hard stuff of following God. We are given so much goodness in the gospel: a relationship with God for starters! But also forgiveness, healing, reconciled relationships, a change and liberation of priorities, freedom and new life. All such wonderful and good things. Yet they are all a foretaste. Reconciliation doesn't always happen. We might have an interior freedom but experience hardship after hardship externally. I've been reading the diaries of Etty Hillesum who expereinced just that. She was a young Jewish woman in the 1940s. She experienced such a bliss and joy because of her faith and spirituality that found contentment even in life in a concentration camp. Yet her life ended at the tender age of 29. So much life left to live, so much potential unrealised. *** Resurrection is a reminder and encouragement that our real hope and the true fulfilment of the gospel isn't in the here and now (it begins now, but as a foretaste of what's to come). We aren't to expect ' everything will go my way ' in this life or that I should experience the perennial blessing of God in my earthly life and relationships. Following God will not be easy. The things He calls us to do may not succeed. The people we love may not love us back. The person we pray for may never come to faith. The change we want to see manifest in the world around us may not happen in this life. But resurrection says this: God has not forgotten. God sees it all. God will set right. Unjust deaths will be dealt with. Unfair hardship will be set straight. This life is not all there is. There is so much more to come, that all of this--even the heart-breaking stuff—will pale in significance in comparison. Yes, that doesn't stop it hurting in the present moment. It doesn't stop grief or stem the tide of darkness today. But it allows us to let go. Surrender. Trust. None of this has to be fixed now. We do what we can. But the outcome of it all is not one realised in this life, but the next. So take courage. There is more to come. ******

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